I'm starting to wonder, just a little, if you wish you were a guy. (even though we have those X chromosomes, too) Or if there are certain aspects of guydom that you envy (or lots of aspects of womandom, at least in this society and culture, that you detest). Or if you would prefer to be completely unaffected/undefined by sex. If I am totally off mark here, it wouldn't be the first time! It's just that there are times when I feel that being a guy (and living in a male-dominated society) has been a real moral/intellectual/possibly spiritual handicap for me(notice I didn't say emotional, because I think I'm way more emotional, generally speaking, than some women I know, though probably not in a good way). Or else I'm just trying to assign blame for my many shortcomings to biology (it's so much EASIER than taking personal responsibility!).